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Your Questions:
"What is Affectology and why use this term?"
"Why is the term 'af-x' registered?"
"How do we learn our emotions and feelings?"
"Why do you say that a child learns 'affect
reactions' differently to adults?"
"How does this 'Emotional Matrix' have anything
to do with my depression?"
"What findings support the idea of an 'Emotional
Matrix'?"
"Why does an af-x practitioner INSIST on 'no
talk' from the client?"
"Why is 'Mind Over Chatter' the catch phrase
of the therapy and the practitioner training?"
"Why is conscious memory unreliable?"
"What are the parts of the brain that 'store'
emotional material and memory?"
"How can you say that we form our Emotional
Matrix in early childhood, yet don't focus on childhood problems
in the therapy?"
"How does every feeling affect every part of
the body?"
"What is the basic ideology behind the 'emotional
health reform' aspect of the therapy?"
Questions From Clinical Professionals:
"You've told us a lot about the theory of affectology
but what do you actually DO with your clients?"
"HOW do you actually help with that re-education?"
"What is Affectology and why
use this term?" – Q from John, Brisbane
Affectology is the field of study that investigates how we
learn and develop affect (feeling and emotional) patterns
very early in life, that form an underlying emotional
matrix or 'sense of self', and how that influences all
our future emotional responses and reactions.
Through specialising in this field and over his years of pioneering
research and development into a totally unique approach to
therapy, Ian White found it necessary
to "coin" totally new terms such as affectology to be able
to accurately describe the nature of his work. This makes
a clear distinction from "psychology," a field that has concentrated
on the "thinking processes," rather than the "feeling" self.
Affectology theory is the study of the scientific underpinnings
of the formations of human emotion and does not necessarily
include the study of clinical approaches.
Practical affectology is the study of and application of the
precepts of affectology theory to a new worldview of clinical
practice with an aim to helping improve the affect existence
of a client.
An af-x Practitioner is a professional clinician
with PROVEN high levels of success in the practice of affectology.
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"Why is the term 'af-x' registered?"
– Q from Kevin, Gosford
Throughout much of the text on this site you will see the
® trademark registration tag attached to "af-x". In
our culture, this has a commercial significance and denotes
trade and commercial protection. Yet, this is decidedly NOT
the case with af-x®.
The principles and imperatives inherent in quality
af-x work are stringently adhered to by conscientious
practitioners. Some ex-students are less stringent. When a
professional is entitled to be referred to as an af-x
Practitioner, you know that that person has applied themselves
to quality training and continual professional upgrading,
and, through client feedback studies (ESRs),
have been monitored in their efforts to provide only the best
in affect-oriented therapy.
The registration of af-x is also intended
to protect the quality of training of future practitioners,
ensuring that White's strict educational guidelines are adhered
to in all programs displaying the af-x title.
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"How do we learn our emotions and feelings?"
– Name withheld, Perth.
Just as we are not consciously aware of most of what goes
on within our physical bodies, our minds are constantly processing
thoughts, memories and feelings at subconscious levels.
It is a scientifically proven fact that we feel emotions long
before we are able to consciously think and we began to learn
our initial feeling (or emotional) responses at this subconscious
level.
Our early feeling level reactions were formed without conscious
thought, reason or logic because we had not yet developed
the ability to consciously think about or analyse what we
were responding to.
Research shows that we repetitively respond to things throughout
our lives the way we first learned to respond in our childhood
and even earlier, in our pre-verbal infanthood.
We store our first ever feeling experiences (fear, love, discomfort
pleasure, trauma, joy and all our range of emotions) and unconsciously
learn, almost immediately, which feeling or emotional reactions
get the best results, therefore 'rationalising' that we should
develop and maintain these reactions as though time stood
still.
Significantly, we can't ever remember what our first feeling
responses were, because we did not have the capacity to develop
conscious memories of them at the time they were learned.
We build our "emotional matrix" or personal response patterns
(emotional personality) based on early feeling learnings that
are stored subconsciously, beneath our ability to recall and
understand. We unconsciously "memory-trace" or "bridge" back
to these primary encodings in order for them to be continuously
repeated.
As we mature, some of these automatic response patterns may
be altered or adjusted to suit our development, while others
are not.
Well-learned and entrenched early feeling level reactions,
that are no longer useful or protective, can form the basis
for and influence the development of the uncomfortable feelings,
physical symptoms or uncontrollable behaviours that we may
experience in later life.
This is particularly relevant for people who have experienced
traumatic events and seemingly developed problematic symptoms,
conditions or behaviour as a result.
It is never an event that is the real cause of problems, but
rather our learned emotional response that we unconsciously
apply to that event. This explains how two people can experience
the same traumatic situation or similar sort of situation,
and why one can develop significant long-term problems while
the other may be relatively unaffected.
Nothing, including any amount of therapy, will ever change
the fact that a person experienced a certain event. What can
be changed, is the person's learned emotional response pattern
that is doing the damage and maintaining the problematic symptoms,
conditions or behaviour.
By their very nature, early feeling level learnings and reactions
are not revealed to the conscious mind, they are automatic
and reflexive. Because they are unconsciously learned and
maintained they can not be affected by conscious efforts to
identify, analyse, understand or change them. They can however
be privately re-assessed and permanently resolved by the subconscious
mind.
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"Why do you say that a child learns 'affect
reactions' differently to adults?" – Q: from Eva, Stockholm.
By the time human beings have developed the ability to form
cognitive constructs or the capacity for conscious level memory
or speech the dynamics of their individual emotional matrix
are already well learned and automatically functioning at
an unconscious level. See detailed information on the emotional
matrix. We can only experience things at the affect or feeling
level at the stage of development when these early learnings
occur.
From that time on our emotional reactions to situations and
experiences are pre-determined and we have little control
over them at conscious level. They are driven by an unconscious
process that was basically a protective mechanism at the time
of learning but one that continues to influence how we "feel"
about ourselves and how we "feel" and "react" to what is happening
around us.
As we mature, some of these automatic response patterns may
be naturally altered or adjusted to suit our development,
while others may not be and remain firmly, but unknowingly,
in place. Later as adults we mostly rely on cognitive "thinking"
strategies to try and learn how to alter problematic feelings
and uncomfortable reactions but most people find themselves
slipping back into their "old feeling ways".
The way our emotional matrix influences our feelings and reactions
doesn't involve our conscious thought processes or cognitive
abilities. We can't learn how to change our emotional matrix
using the abilities we mainly rely on as adults because it
was developed quite differently in the early stages of development
at a purely affect or feeling level.
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"How does this 'Emotional Matrix' have
anything to do with my depression?" – Q: from Robert,
Seattle.
People with depression find it impossible to even describe
why they are experiencing the feelings that they are or explain
why they are responding to their life or circumstances in
such a negative way. Depression sufferers can spend countless
hours discussing and analysing the particular event or experience
that is believed to have caused their depression but they
too find that this never truly reveals the source of their
automatic emotional responses to that event or experience.
All our emotional responses and reactions are unconsciously
influenced, to a greater or a lesser degree, by the emotional
matrix we developed in the early stages of development. See
detailed information on the emotional matrix. The way we learned
to respond and react at emotional level at this pre-verbal
and pre-conscious memory stage is usually the main contributing
factor for the later development of emotionally based symptoms
and conditions.
Our emotional matrix underpins how we feel about ourselves
and how we respond to things around us at the unconscious
affect level. As a result it is the main underlying cause
of depression and many other surface symptoms.
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"What findings support the idea of an
'Emotional Matrix'?" – Q: from Paul, Melbourne.
Researchers Antonio Damasio ("Descartes' Error" and
"The Feeling of What Happens"), Joseph LeDoux ("The
Emotional Brain"), Susan Greenfield ("The Private Life
of the Brain") and Daniel Goleman ("Emotional Intelligence"),
to name just a few, have been instrumental in alerting the
world to the irrefutable fact that our talking selves, our
conscious perceptions and our reasoning minds play very little
part in our actual ability to resolve our emotional problems.
These scientists have proved without doubt that there lies
an undercurrent to the mind that is formed very early in life
at a basic limbic brain level, involving the amygdala, hippocampus
and other centres that are responsible for forming and "remembering"
(albeit at unconscious level) our emotional personality. It's
not enough to discount this as "something of interest" because
it's our emotional substrate that influences, to lesser or
greater degrees, everything in our lives; mental, emotional,
attitudinal, behavioural and also physical (psychosomatic).
There exists within all of us, a feeling (affect) substrate
that was learned at a very early time in our development.
Science now points the way to the following facts about this
substrate:
¨ We learn feeling reactions (affect responses) at a time
earlier than cognitive constructs (if that's the case, how
can we hope to remember them using cognitive memory?) [ref,
LeDoux, Greenfield, Goleman]
¨ The majority of those learnings were based on misinterpretation
of the actuality of experience at the time of the experience
(if we could remember them, how do we know that our adult
perception is remembering "truth"?) [ref; "R.I.G.s – Representations
of Interactions that are Generalised" and "pre-emergent amodalism"
of Daniel Stern's work in: - "The Interpersonal World of
the Infant" ISBN 0-465-03403-9]
¨ It's impossible to have a consciously-recalled memory of
those facts (memory is an in-the-present re-constructive process
unconsciously bridging to vagaries of subconscious feeling
memory) [ref, "Suggestions of Abuse" Michael Yapko,
Ph.D]
¨ When they were learned they worked for us – they were productive
and had positive intention (at time of learning, and the intention
was more than likely that of getting attention) [ref, "The
Dark Side of the Inner Child" Stephen Wolinsky]
¨ They were "taloned" or encoded at a neurological level as
learned responses (the limbic brain memorises the response
as "appropriate")
¨ Because they worked for us at time of taloning, and caused
our "needs" to be met, we unconsciously bridge to them, using
the same responses time and time again, so forming a habit
of feeling. (the mechanism of all learning that evolves into
habitual unconscious response)
¨ They still, in the majority of cases, exist today as a substrata
of how we feel about ourselves or the world around us (mostly
unchanged from the original learning because of our preference
for awareness at intellectual and narrative levels of mind)
¨ Due to the manner of encoding they cannot be verbalised,
that is, recalled or talked about (because they were learned
at an "amodal" pure affect level without the involvement of
word constructs)
¨ Early affect (feeling) learnings formed the basis upon which
later learnings were constructed; or at least, they were influential
in the manner in which we learned all subsequent learnings;
mental, emotional, attitudinal. (human beings are empirically
didactic beings – we are the product of all that we have learned,
built onto over time)
In his early theoretical development work, Ian White called
this substrate our EMOTIONAL MATRIX, or our IDEOGENETIC SENSE
OF SELF and the existence of this "emotional matrix" now scientifically
lies beyond question.
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"Why does an af-x practitioner INSIST
on 'no talk' from the client?" – Q: from Anne, Sydney.
The existence of our own individual "emotional matrix" now
scientifically lies beyond question, yet the manner in which
the vast majority of clinicians still operate ignores its
existence entirely. See detailed information on the emotional
matrix
It is simply not possible, if one is to accept the emotional
matrix, to continue to believe that any reporting that a client
may do is inarguably authentic regarding:
¨ What the true nature of the problem may be
¨ What the perceived cause (point of origin) of the problem
may be
¨ How the cause grew to be the problem
Analysing what clients try to verbally describe about these
things is in fact a vague and inauthentic pursuit, at best.
The truth of any verbal reporting as conducted in the "talking
therapies" is now seriously in doubt.
And if any doubt whatsoever exists, it's inconceivable that
therapists of any moral integrity can trust the authenticity
of any narrative, no matter how convinced the client may be
of its truth.
This, then, is the dilemma. Has this new research and realisation
about the existence of an ideogenetic – non-verbal – emotional
substrate revealed to us that we're fooling ourselves if we
think we tell ourselves the truth about emotional states?
Yes.
Has it shown conclusively that a hundred years of professional
commitment to the truth of the spoken word has been misplaced?
Yes.
Has it proven that the emotional brain hijacks "feeling" experience,
leaving the conscious reasoning brain floundering and gasping,
trying to catch up with reality and put it into words – after
the fact? Yes.
Does this mean that a huge gap exists between reality and
the hundred-year myth that we need to be able to understand
and talk about our mental and emotional problems? Yes, most
certainly.
Renee Descartes proclaimed "I think, therefore I am". Antonio
Damasio ("Descartes' Error") has shown conclusively
that this has been the mantra for the construction of Western
thought in psychology, medicine and all therapeutic forms
that has guided us down a very rickety path.
New research into the human condition allows us to proclaim
"I feel, therefore I am". A more contemporary (if heretical)
and well-supported common-sense approach. This approach has
contributed to the development of affectology and the resulting
"non-narrative", "private" and highly effective nature of
af-x Therapy.
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"Why is 'Mind Over Chatter' the catch
phrase of the therapy and the practitioner training?"
– Q: from Colin, Canberra.
"Mind Over Chatter" quite clearly describes the private nature
of the approach used in affectology and af-x Therapy
and the emphasis placed on affect response re-learning at
the subconscious level of mind, rather than engaging in conscious
level discussion about presenting symptoms.
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"Why is it that affectologists and af-x
practitioners don't place much value on conscious memory?"
– Q: from Jean, Sydney.
What a person can consciously remember is of little use when
it comes to effectively dealing with the underlying affect
(feeling or emotional) cause of their problems or difficulties.
We all unconsciously learn affect reactions and responses
at a time well before our ability to form cognitive constructs.
And if that's the case, and the early-learned affect reactions
are the real cause of the problem, how can we hope to remember
them using cognitive memory?
To take this even further, the majority of those learnings
were based on misinterpretation of the actuality of experience
at the time of the experience, so if we could remember them,
how do we know that our adult perception is remembering "truth"?
Conscious memory is an in-the-present, fragile, re-constructive
process unconsciously bridging to vagaries of subconscious
feeling memory and open to much influence, so it is impossible
to have truly accurate consciously recalled memories of very
early affect learnings and infant experiences.
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"What are the parts of the brain that
'store' emotional material and memory?" – Q: from Julia,
Canberra.
Until relatively recently, little was known of the true function
of those bodies in the brain known as AMYGDALAE. These are
two rather dense neuro-structures lying at the anterior (frontal)
portion of the set of brain components known as the limbic
brain. Neuroscientists knew that the amygdalae had something
to do with our immediate reactions to fear, and seemed important
as primal components of our built-in survival mechanisms.
So, it was known that when, for instance, we see a snake on
the path before us, the amygdalae immediately register that
visual information and send split-second instructions to all
the other parts of the brain and nervous system in order for
us to leap into action for the sake of protection and survival.
We do not process the visual information at neo-cortical level
– the part of the brain that does our thinking, evaluating,
reasoning and problem solving for us – the amygdalae bypass
the "reasoning" activities, creating an immediate response;
the thinking and evaluating part of the brain/mind being left
behind in the rush.
The role of the amygdalae in our survival has been laid down
in our development as humans (in fact, all animals) over millions
of years. In the instance of the snake, and any number of
other life-threatening perceptions, our amygdalae save our
lives.
However the amygdalae serve us in more ways than just the
processing of information about immediate danger. Words and
language are processed in specific parts of the neo-cortical
areas of the brain. The structures of the limbic brain (amygdala,
hippocampus etc) are not concerned with the processing of
language, reasoning or "thought".
Nonetheless, information is stored at amygdaloid level. The
amygdalae have a codifying memory, and although that memory
is not word-oriented, the amygdala recognise sounds or any
other information that they remember is associated with past
pain, trauma or life-threat. And the amygdalae react as though
it was the same as the visual information of the snake on
the path.
Via the amygdaloid-hippocampal pathway, these two neural centres
(that is, the amygdalae and the hippocampus) correspond, creating
immediate primal response reactions to whatever the information
is perceived to represent. Within neuroscience, we understand
that both the amygdalae and the hippocampus are the regions
where emotional reactive information and "memory" is stored.
But it's the amygdalae that gets "fired up" first.
It would be too simplistic to say that the amygdalae are the
sole repository of encoded emotional memories. This task of
"housing" emotional memories is shared by other centres in
the brain that correspond with each other in highly complex
and subtle ways. As an example, the amygdalae cannot be activated
by the hearing of a particularly emotionally charged word
unless it either (a) has been conditioned to recognise the
sound of that word rather than its meaning, or (b) an associative
cognitive recognition of the meaning of the word (in memory)
has taken place. In both cases, the "sound" has been unconsciously
processed by other centres of the brain and in turn signalled
"danger" (- or otherwise) to the amygdalae.
The affect reactions to our earliest experiences were "taloned"
or encoded at a neurological level as learned responses (the
limbic brain memorizes the response as "appropriate"). Because
they worked for us at time of taloning, we unconsciously bridge
or "memory-trace" to these early learned responses via the
limbic brain system and use them time and time again in order
to emotionally respond in the present.
They exist today as a substratum of how we feel about ourselves
or the world around us (mostly unchanged from the original
learning because of our predilection for awareness at intellectual
and narrative levels of mind).
So, in summary, it's primarily the amygdalae that immediately
react whenever sensory information says "this is threatening"
– whether that information is conveyed in the form of visual
information, a word (or more specifically, the remembered
association they have with the sound of the word), or within
any of the other sensory modalities.
For further reading, see "Emotional Intelligence" by
Daniel Goleman in which he refers to this reactive process
of the limbic brain system as 'emotional hijacking' and also
see "The Emotional Brain" by Joseph LeDoux.
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"How can you say that we form our Emotional
Matrix in early childhood, yet don't focus on childhood problems
in the therapy?" – Q: from Annette, Sydney.
All our automatic emotional responses and reactions have been,
and continue to be, unconsciously influenced by the individual
emotional matrix that we formed in the pre-verbal and pre-conscious
memory stage of early development.
From this time on our emotional matrix underpins how we feel
about ourselves and how we respond to things around us at
the unconscious affect level. It is the main underlying cause
of the emotional problems, symptoms and conditions that we
may develop in later childhood, as adolescents and as adults.
Focusing on specific problems experienced during either childhood,
adolescence or adulthood is only concentrating on the surface
symptoms rather than addressing the underlying affect cause
of these problems.
Affectology and af-x Therapy focus on helping people
to re-learn old outdated affect response patterns and in learning
how they can respond to things differently at the emotional
level. By dealing with and resolving the underlying cause
of emotional discomfort at this level, it provides people
with a new ability to unconsciously apply a new affect response
learning to all their past problems and experiences, and to
therefore positively change how they feel about them.
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"How does every feeling affect every
part of the body? Is this the basis of the psychosomatic dynamic?"
– Q: from Greg, Brisbane.
Elements of the human brain constitute a sophisticated processing
centre that is part of the limbic system surrounding the brain
stem (amygdala, hippocampus and hypothalamus). These parts
are superbly designed to interpret and transmit emotion and
feeling to the various systems of the body with little or
no involvement of the neo-cortical or "reasoning and thinking"
parts of the brain.
This processing centre reacts to signals (by releasing neuro-chemicals)
that are the result of immediate emotional stimulus or as
a result of long conditioned 'sense of self' emotional patterns.
Based on the emotional content of the signals they receive,
these parts of the brain send instructions to the body's Autonomic
Nervous System (ANS).
The main function of the ANS is to maintain physical balance
or 'homeostasis'; it is the central signal-transmitting facility
that controls every organ and sub-system in the body (circulation,
metabolism, respiration, immune system etc.) and it is this
primary function that can have a dramatic effect on physical
health.
The ANS receives 'instructions' from the 'emotional interpretation
system' of the brain and sends chemical messages throughout
the body. These messages cause our physical reactions to everything
from temperature changes to emotions (ie from goosebumps on
the skin to the rapid pulse and rush of adrenaline after a
fright).
In a situation of perceived mental, emotional or physical
stress the ANS immediately activates the stimulator phase
that signals certain bodily systems to work more efficiently
and others to work with less of a priority, in effect shutting
them right down. This provides the physical ability to be
able to respond to the increased stress or physical danger.
If and when the situation is resolved, our ANS automatically
re-tunes or re-balances the body during the relaxer phase;
this includes increasing the effectiveness of the systems
that were temporarily shut down.
When humans are not able to physically re-tune or re-balance,
perhaps due to problematic feelings or early emotional learnings
held unconsciously, then this can cause an imbalance in the
ANS due to the constant inefficient functioning of important
bodily systems.
This sort of imbalance in the ANS can lead to a wide variety
of symptoms and problems in virtually every part of the body
and these in turn can lead to the physical signs of stress,
depression, anxiety and the like. In addition, there are numerous
purely physical symptoms or conditions that are often referred
to as "psychosomatic" because an organic cause can not be
found by modern medical science and therefore available treatments
are based only on symptomatic relief.
In many cases, the real cause of physical problems such as
migraines, ulcers, skin conditions, chronic fatigue etc are
underlying emotional patterns that are having a negative influence
on the proper functioning of the ANS. Effectively dealing
with these emotional patterns allows the ANS to begin functioning
normally and can result in the improvement or resolution of
the physical symptoms and conditions that may have developed
from that emotional cause.
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"What is the basic ideology behind the
'emotional health reform' aspect of the therapy?" – Q:
from Fiona, Adelaide.
Many well credentialed authors, including those listed below,
have bravely presented critiques of their own professions
and a different view in an effort to deconstruct a social
"worshipping" of cognitive psychology today.
Dr Peter Breggin - "The Antidepressant Fact Book";
Dr Tana Dineen - "Manufacturing Victims: - What the Psychology
Industry is Doing to People";
Terence W. Campbell, Ph.D. - "Beware the Talking Cure:
- Psychotherapy May be Hazardous to Your Mental Health";
and
Robyn Dawes - "House of Cards:- Psychology and Psychotherapy
Built on Myth".
If we are now discovering that narrative is, at best, open
to benign corruption through influence, and at worst, blatantly
inauthentic, where does that leave the future of therapy?
All mainstream education in therapy has been based on a trust
that people know what they're talking about when they're defining
their own emotional condition. And here comes a new common-sense
view of human awareness that renders this idea inoperable!
What do mainstream and conventional therapists do?
One brings to mind the image of a group of people (our society)
that has taken the wrong turn in the road a hundred years
ago, looking over the shoulder longingly at the turn-off,
wondering how the way will be found back onto the right trail.
And that group knows in its heart of hearts that the hundred
years of experience (along a wrong pathway) has resulted in
a psychological and therapeutic approach that very dangerously
trusts the "truth" of conscious memory and its accompanying
words.
The predominant attitude of mainstream therapists and counsellors
is to ignore the power of the emotional mind. What then, of
the puzzlement experienced by those intelligent lay-people
(you!) who read the ever-expanding amount of literature available
about the emotional architecture of "us"? The ground-swell
of awareness about emotional intelligence, the "emotional
limbic brain structures" – amygdala, hippocampus, et al –
seems to be creating a bubble of awareness experienced by
a thinking public that is getting beyond the capabilities
of mainstream therapists to address and speak intelligently
to, much less meet on the new ground of our "emotional selves".
How can we say that the emotionally suffering public has been
left lonely in their search for settlement and balance at
pure emotional (or "affect") levels while an arrogant self-serving,
self-important, righteous professional strata of clinicians
grows further and further away from the truth of the issue?
Well, new findings in emotional neuro-physiology (that is,
new findings of old facts) allow us to say it.
Thankfully, there is an answer, and it's not to be found in
the instructional texts of post-Freudian analytical counselling
practices.
Over the many years of development of the af-x approach
to emotional re-framing and restructuring, Ian White has heard
scores of comments from clients who have been more in touch
with the "something in the air" than any therapists from whom
they may have previously sought help. Comments like:-
"I know that for forty years I have been lying to myself."
"The more I'm forced to talk about my past, the more I make
up."
"I've talked and talked and talked it through, and it's just
gotten worse."
"Getting it off my chest just left room for greater pain."
"I didn't think my problem was so bad, and then I was led
to believe it was worse – so it became worse."
"I don't know how to put my feelings into words, so I don't
want to be forced."
Comments such as these reinforce the findings of the new affectologists
because they know that the process of verbalisation in therapy
is, at best, open to doubt as to truth, and at worst, may
be completely inauthentic.
It's because of this, that affectologists and af-x
Practitioners seek to help bring about "emotional health reform'
in our society by making available a therapeutic approach
that appreciates and honours a person's "affect" state of
being over their intellectual state of being.
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"You've told us a lot about
the theory of affectology, Ian, but what do you actually DO
with your clients?" – Q: to Ian White from Larry, a member
of the ICSPP, Washington USA.
As with ALL therapies and clinical approaches, the aim is
to correct fundamental causative dysfunction. Current affect
and emotional dis-integrity is the result of unconscious repetition
of affect responses encoded at early-development times (we
assert "pre-verbal").
The crucial "process" of af-x is the re-integration
of temporal dissociative states. This is achieved by (1) deconstruction
of socio-professional health neo-mythology, (2) education
on affect matrix development, (3) education on inherent reframing
resources, and (4) guidance in applying re-integrative resources.
Larry, I'm sure you would know other clinicians who would
call this "growing up the inner child." We affectologists
do not use that metaphor (and that's all it is), because it
proposes a "blame" mode (even though it's one's OWN "inner
child"). af-x is based on the imperative of ultimate
self-responsibility. (The client learned it; the client is
habituating it; only the client's unconscious knows what the
cause was; only the client can reframe it.)
So, what we actually DO is what we need to do to bring about
that goal of reframing and reintegrating at affective level.
We believe without doubt that every person is perfect just
as they are; they've simply learned some non-useful responses
that they can just as easily "un-learn" and re-learn (reframe).
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"That's logical, but HOW do you actually
help with that re-education?" – a further Q in response
to the above answer, to Ian White from Larry, a member of
the ICSPP, Washington USA.
Deconstruction of non-useful health myths and education relating
to affect systems and matrix is a good part of the treatment.
When people (all of us) are able to get a new view of an old
problem, that very "new sight" goes a long way towards an
automatic search for the re-integration of self. af-x
Practitioners assist the client towards that final goal and
outcome by utilising paralogical processing not unlike cued
meditative re-rationalisation ("Reminding the mind" rather
than external instructive injunctions).
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